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I am not sure what to do?

What if my Spouse doesn't want to attend? Should I attend alone?

If either you or your spouse doesn’t want to attend The Relationship Healing Resort, you’re just like most people (or most couples).  There are many times at The Healing Resort where one or both spouses are hesitant to attend, especially alone. 


That is why The Healing Resort was designed so that whether you come alone or together, what you learn can still definitely heal YOU, heal your marriage, and other relationships that are failing. 


Throughout your stay at The Healing Resort, each person works on understanding his or her unique personality color tendencies, choices and behaviors, especially their extremes. There is no blame or shame. The Relationship Healing Resort is about understanding and answers that will help you make much more informed choices about how you want to relate to others in your life in more positive, productive, loving and meaningful ways. 


You will be in a safe place to gain personal insight as to what is tearing your relationship apart. If your spouse doesn't want to come, invite a friend to attend with you.

Should I Attend Alone?

If your partner does NOT want to attend with you, I highly recommend you make the very brave choice to attend The Healing Resort ALONE, because you will:


  • Learn to understand and manage your personality color tendencies

  • Learn to understand your partner's personality color tendencies

  • Learn how to change the destructive ways you are currently relating

  • Learn how to communicate powerfully, effectively and respectfully

  • Gain knowledge necessary to understand where your relationship derails

  • Acquire tools to evaluate your behavior and expectations as a spouse

  • Gain knowledge and develop skills necessary to build a strong marital relationship

  • Better understand yourself, your personality tendencies and your wants and needs

  • Become a better, more insightful person and potential partner, no matter what choice you make about your current marriage

How do I save my marriage?

​If you don’t take advantage of this great growth and healing opportunity you will:

  • Pass up an opportunity to better understand yourself and your needs and to learn skills that can help you fulfill those needs

  • Miss the opportunity to understand, love and appreciate YOU, and your partner like never before

  • Experience the pain, loss, frustration, hopelessness and struggle you have been experiencing over and over again

  • Your relationship will most likely continue to deteriorate

  • If you divorce, you will likely repeat the same destructive behaviors and mistakes in a new relationship

  • Never understand "What went wrong?" So that you are armed with the information and relationships skills you need to end the relational dysfunction

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